PDF preparation guide
Preparing for a Legacy Interview
For one conversation with a parent, grandparent, elder, or anyone whose voice you do not want to lose.
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Preparation should make remembering easier, not turn memory into homework. Download the guide that fits the story you are trying to preserve.
What are you trying to do?
Every guide below is free. No email, no account, nothing to fill in online. Find the line that sounds like your situation.
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Someone in my family is ill, and there may not be much time.
Start with one conversation rather than a project. This tells you what to ask first.
Download the free guide Preparing for a Legacy Interview · one page · print it
Or the full manual: Last Conversations — $9.99Working around fatigue, medication and a hospital that runs on its own schedule.
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I have a box of photographs and nobody's name on them.
The photographs will keep. The people who can name them will not.
Download the free guide Photographs, Letters & Documents · one page · print it
Or the full manual: The Photograph Box — $4.99Triage, running an identification session, dating a photograph with no date.
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I want to write down one person, properly, once.
A parent, a grandparent, an aunt nobody wrote about.
Download the free guide Preparing a Family or Life Story · one page · print it
Or the full manual: The Complete Guide Set — $14.99All twenty-one guides in one printable file, with an introduction on how to use them.
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Our shul or society is closing, or marking an anniversary.
Communal memory disappears in the few weeks when nobody is thinking about it.
Download the free guide Synagogue, Landsmanshaft & Society Memory · one page · print it
Or the full manual: When a Congregation Closes — $9.99What must be saved when a building is sold, and where it legally has to go.
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My family came from somewhere else, and nobody wrote it down.
The generation that remembers arriving is the one disappearing fastest.
Download the free guide Immigration, Migration & Starting Again · one page · print it
Or the full manual: The Ones Who Arrived — $4.99What was carried, the first winter, and what was deliberately not passed on.
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There is a chapter my family will not discuss.
You do not have to open it. But you should know how, before you decide.
Download the free guide War, Shoah & Displacement · one page · print it
Or the full manual: The One Who Will Not Talk — $4.99What refusal usually means, what can be done around it, and when to stop.
Use one guide, or several.
Each PDF gives you things to think about, material worth gathering only if it is easy, interview prompts, and a reminder to set boundaries before difficult subjects are opened. You do not need to complete anything before contacting me.
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PDF preparation guide
Preparing a Family or Life Story
For a larger narrative built from several interviews, documents and generations.
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Photographs, Letters & Documents
How to turn family material into evidence and story rather than a box of unidentified paper.
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Childhood, Home & Neighbourhood
A guide for recovering the sensory world around a childhood instead of producing only dates.
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Parents, Grandparents & Ancestors
For writing people who may be known through fragments, stories, documents and inherited habits.
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Immigration, Migration & Starting Again
For moves between countries, towns, languages or social worlds.
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Love, Marriage & Family
For courtship, partnership, marriage, parenthood and the private architecture of a family.
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Work, Calling, Business & Service
For lives shaped by a trade, profession, family business, vocation, public service or volunteer work.
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Food, Holidays & Family Traditions
For the rituals that carry memory through taste, repetition, language and family habit.
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Difficult Memories, Loss & Resilience
For material involving bereavement, estrangement, illness, war, trauma or other subjects that require control and care.
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From Genealogy to Narrative
For families that already have dates, records and trees but need a readable human story.
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Community, Congregation & Institution
For a synagogue, church, society, school, association, business, federation or other shared institution.
Download PDFJewish memory
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Jewish Family Memory & Continuity
For Jewish family stories carried through migration, language, ritual, neighbourhood and inherited memory.
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Synagogue, Landsmanshaft & Society Memory
For congregational and communal histories where official minutes tell only part of the story.
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War, Shoah & Displacement: Preparing Carefully
For family material touched by persecution, war, hiding, camps, flight, military service or forced displacement.
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Federation & Community-Wide Memory
For multi-family, multi-agency or city-wide Jewish memory projects that need scale without flattening individual voices.
Download PDFAfter we speak
Set the balance with the Story Mixer.
Once I understand the project, the Story Mixer lets you show how emotional, humorous, intimate, historical, document-heavy or faith-centred you want the finished narrative to be. You can also mark subjects as Please explore, Handle carefully or Do not include.
No quotation is given before the first conversation. When the project is a fit, I assess the scope and normally send the written quotation within 24 hours.
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These one-page guides tell you what to ask. The manuals go further — what a good answer sounds like, what to do when someone will not talk, how to run a synagogue's anniversary project, how to record a parent when there may only be one afternoon. Fourteen of them, from $4.99.
See the guides & manuals All twenty-one in one file — $14.99
New guides, when there are new guides.
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